Eating Pork

Dear Victor,

My brother has become some kind of "holy roller" and it's driving us all nuts. His latest deal is our plan for Easter. We typically have a spiral-cut ham and everyone enjoys it. He says he no longer eats pork. Moreover, he says the most righteous of Christians wouldn't eat such foods. My mother is very proud of her Easter hams and its got everyone bickering. Aren't Christians free to eat whatever they want?

Marci M. - Durant, OK

Dear Marci,

Yes, Christians are free to eat whatever they want. But there are three caveats that I can think of. First of all, Old Testament laws on foods are still viewed by nutritionists as sensible eating plans. Second, Christians are to do everything in moderation when it comes to consumption. Third, Christians are to love others as they would like to be loved.

That your brother has chosen to stop eating pork is a personal choice. He is free to make it. However, he is not free to foist that choice on others, use it to make others feel guilty, or become a bother to others with his choice.

My advice? Mom should cook her famous "Easter ham" for everyone to enjoy. Anyone who chooses not to enjoy it is free to bring whatever they want to eat instead --- and keep their mouth shut. You should tell your brother about this plan immediately.