Monday, November 23, 2009

Sexually Compatible

Dear Victorious,

I know that pre-marital sex is out of the question for Christians. But how else can we assess sexual compatibility?

Dave F. - Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Dave,

By assessing your compatibility in other areas. Sex is the celebration of the relationship. It's not something you test drive. You don't for example, see how good the birthday party is before you decide to have a birthday. In the same way, you don't use sex as a barometer for the relationship - or as criteria for the relationship. Focus on the relationship ... giving, compromising, serving and sacrificing. The sex will follow (after marriage).

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