Resolving Conflict

Dear Victorious,

What would you say are the most important things to remember about conflict? It seems that, as a Christian, I often find myself in some sort of conflict with others who purport to be Christians. What should I be focusing on in those situations?

Darrell V. - Petaluma, CA

Dear Darrell,

As a Christian, your singular focus should be on God's will. So if you find yourself in any type of conflict for any reason, turn to God in prayer and ask how He would like you to handle it. And be committed to handling it however He tells you to. It's as simple as that.

There are several other things you could know about conflict, but if you're looking for the most important, this would be it.