Dear Victorious,
You've blogged before on Islam, Catholicism, Judaism and other religions. I know you think these are all false religions because they worship a different God than Christians do. But I wonder, are there some religions that are more false than others?
Andy W. - Mesquite, TX
Dear Andy,
Yes, I think there are. Islam, Catholicism and Judaism all start with the same God that Christians worship. But then they add to Him or take things away from Him to make up an entirely different. Still, an element of the god they worship is shared in the actual one true God.
On the other hand, there are entirely different religions that don't worship a god that has any dimension of the one true God in it. Examples that come to mind are the B'hai and Unitarian Universalist religions. Generally speaking, they think don't define their god very narrowly at all. In fact, their notion of god is very plural and all-encompassing. They think god is in everything. Perhaps the most outrageous religion I know of though is the Hindu religion. They have more than 600,000 different gods. Can you just imagine?
With many other false religions, I see their belief (i.e., their "god) on a sort of a spectrum. You could move them up or down that spectrum to get to the one true God. So it may not be a stretch for them to come to Christ. You'd just have to refine their definition of who God is. On the other hand, the Hindus aren't anywhere on that spectrum. In order to come to Christ, they'd have to completely throw away everything they've ever believed about any god.
So yes, there are some religions that are more false than others. But notice which ones are advancing the most in the world these days? It's not the Hindus. Rather one of Satan's most successful tactics is to take some semblance of the truth, pervert it and then it proliferates. Consider that Christians, for example, have no problem marrying Catholics or Jews. They don't really believe their gods are all that different. The Bible calls this deception. It's considerably more dangerous to the Christian faith than something like the Hindu religion. So said differently, the religions that are the most false are not the ones we should worry the most about.
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Monday, November 29, 2010
Doesn't Compute
Dear Victorious,
You seem to believe that Christianity is the way to go. But as you look at Christianity today, is there anything that gives you cause to pause? I mean is there anything that doesn't compute for you?
Valerie N. - Lucas, TX
Dear Valerie,
Most certainly there is, but it is always on the part of the Christians themselves. I believe Jesus' plan for our lives is rock solid and that always computes. But I continue to be amazed that self-professed Christians can apparently read the same Bible I do and come to such different conclusions than I do.
For example, many western Christians today live luxurious lives. Really nice homes, cars, entertainment, etc. They live really, really good lives. But it amazes me that they can enjoy all the trappings of wealth --- and be so indifferent to the suffering of the poor around them. How can we Christians live so well when so many - even other Christians - are not? This doesn't compute for me!
You seem to believe that Christianity is the way to go. But as you look at Christianity today, is there anything that gives you cause to pause? I mean is there anything that doesn't compute for you?
Valerie N. - Lucas, TX
Dear Valerie,
Most certainly there is, but it is always on the part of the Christians themselves. I believe Jesus' plan for our lives is rock solid and that always computes. But I continue to be amazed that self-professed Christians can apparently read the same Bible I do and come to such different conclusions than I do.
For example, many western Christians today live luxurious lives. Really nice homes, cars, entertainment, etc. They live really, really good lives. But it amazes me that they can enjoy all the trappings of wealth --- and be so indifferent to the suffering of the poor around them. How can we Christians live so well when so many - even other Christians - are not? This doesn't compute for me!
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Seriousness of Sin
Dear Victorious,
I teach a Sunday School class of adults, and my wife and I participate in a home cell group. Inevitably, when the discussion is about sin, people tend to gloss over the issue. For instance, one of the members of our group wanted to confess something. When she did, the others in the group basically trivialized the sin, telling her that "everyone has done that," or that she "should beat yourself up." I'm a sinner too, but I somehow have the sense that we aren't really understanding the seriousness of sin. What do you think?
Adolph N. - Grand Island, NE
Dear Adolph,
I think that when you say you "somehow have the sense," it is a case of the Holy Spirit convicting you of a Biblical truth. Sin is way more serious than most of us realize. While God is willing to forgive all sin, His disposition toward any sin is extreme, to say the least. Today, we have Jesus serving as the "scapegoat" - having taken our sins upon Himself and intervening for us with God.
If it were not for Jesus standing between us and God, we would still be experiencing the natural consequences of God encountering our sin. For a look at what those natural consequences are, look in the Old Testament at how God dealt with sin. For example, in the book of Leviticus we have the incident where two of Aaron's sons (who were ordained priests) burned incense at the altar, in the temple - in addition to doing everything else God told them. It would be tantamount to our pastor lighting a scented candle in addition to everything he did for a church service. But God had given specific instructions, and the burning of incense was not included. So Aaron's sons were being disobedient - not following God's instructions. In response, God immediately flashed fire from the altar killed them both by fire! The congregation had to carry their charred, dead bodies out. God takes sin that seriously.
Listen to your conscience. It is the sound of the Holy Spirit showing you one of God's truths. Sin is incredibly more serious than any of us can probably comprehend. We should spend more time trying to develop a proper regard for sin. In other words, we should try to view sin the way God does. It is the most detestable, reprehensible thing known to God. It should be viewed the same way by His people.
I teach a Sunday School class of adults, and my wife and I participate in a home cell group. Inevitably, when the discussion is about sin, people tend to gloss over the issue. For instance, one of the members of our group wanted to confess something. When she did, the others in the group basically trivialized the sin, telling her that "everyone has done that," or that she "should beat yourself up." I'm a sinner too, but I somehow have the sense that we aren't really understanding the seriousness of sin. What do you think?
Adolph N. - Grand Island, NE
Dear Adolph,
I think that when you say you "somehow have the sense," it is a case of the Holy Spirit convicting you of a Biblical truth. Sin is way more serious than most of us realize. While God is willing to forgive all sin, His disposition toward any sin is extreme, to say the least. Today, we have Jesus serving as the "scapegoat" - having taken our sins upon Himself and intervening for us with God.
If it were not for Jesus standing between us and God, we would still be experiencing the natural consequences of God encountering our sin. For a look at what those natural consequences are, look in the Old Testament at how God dealt with sin. For example, in the book of Leviticus we have the incident where two of Aaron's sons (who were ordained priests) burned incense at the altar, in the temple - in addition to doing everything else God told them. It would be tantamount to our pastor lighting a scented candle in addition to everything he did for a church service. But God had given specific instructions, and the burning of incense was not included. So Aaron's sons were being disobedient - not following God's instructions. In response, God immediately flashed fire from the altar killed them both by fire! The congregation had to carry their charred, dead bodies out. God takes sin that seriously.
Listen to your conscience. It is the sound of the Holy Spirit showing you one of God's truths. Sin is incredibly more serious than any of us can probably comprehend. We should spend more time trying to develop a proper regard for sin. In other words, we should try to view sin the way God does. It is the most detestable, reprehensible thing known to God. It should be viewed the same way by His people.
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Obeying God
Dear Victorious,
What's the best way to go about obeying God? As a Christian, I want to obey Him but I often find that I don't. So I want to be more disciplined in that regard. Can you suggest some things I could do that would help me grow in obedience to Him?
Connie F. - Middleburg Heights, OH
Dear Clara,
It's good that you want to grow in your obedience to God. However, the fact of the matter is that humans are not capable of fully obeying God. Our sin nature gets in the way and wrecks even our best intentions. None of us is humanly capable of obeying God. Therefore, obedience is the result of a relationship with God. So if you want to grow your obedience to God, seek Him first. Grow your relationship with God. You will find that the obedience follows the relationship.
What's the best way to go about obeying God? As a Christian, I want to obey Him but I often find that I don't. So I want to be more disciplined in that regard. Can you suggest some things I could do that would help me grow in obedience to Him?
Connie F. - Middleburg Heights, OH
Dear Clara,
It's good that you want to grow in your obedience to God. However, the fact of the matter is that humans are not capable of fully obeying God. Our sin nature gets in the way and wrecks even our best intentions. None of us is humanly capable of obeying God. Therefore, obedience is the result of a relationship with God. So if you want to grow your obedience to God, seek Him first. Grow your relationship with God. You will find that the obedience follows the relationship.
Friday, November 26, 2010
Bearing Fruit
Dear Victorious,
Jesus said, "I am the vine, you are the branches." I get that. But He loses me when He talks about bearing fruit, not bearing fruit or even bearing good and bad fruit. What exactly does this mean?
Angie P. - Waxahachie, TX
Dear Angie,
I can seem a bit complicated. Jesus is the vine and we are the branches is really the background for the notion of bearing fruit. What is this so-called "fruit?" It's the love of God being played out in people's lives. So if you're volunteering at the library, feeding the homeless, teaching a Sunday school class, etc. --- these are all the "fruit" that Jesus was speaking about.
Think about trees that bear fruit. Often the type of tree cannot be ascertained until it produces fruit. In other words, the fruit is the certain evidence of the tree's real identity. In the same way, the "fruit" that we bear is the certain evidence of our real identity (as Christians). Consider this verse:
"He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit He prunes so that it will be even more fruitful." - John 15:2
What Jesus was saying here is that the "fruit" really matters to God. And if any of us doesn't mature spiritually enough to ever bear fruit, then He will conclude that we don't belong on the tree (Jesus) and we will be cut off (never acquire our salvation).
Jesus said, "I am the vine, you are the branches." I get that. But He loses me when He talks about bearing fruit, not bearing fruit or even bearing good and bad fruit. What exactly does this mean?
Angie P. - Waxahachie, TX
Dear Angie,
I can seem a bit complicated. Jesus is the vine and we are the branches is really the background for the notion of bearing fruit. What is this so-called "fruit?" It's the love of God being played out in people's lives. So if you're volunteering at the library, feeding the homeless, teaching a Sunday school class, etc. --- these are all the "fruit" that Jesus was speaking about.
Think about trees that bear fruit. Often the type of tree cannot be ascertained until it produces fruit. In other words, the fruit is the certain evidence of the tree's real identity. In the same way, the "fruit" that we bear is the certain evidence of our real identity (as Christians). Consider this verse:
"He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit He prunes so that it will be even more fruitful." - John 15:2
What Jesus was saying here is that the "fruit" really matters to God. And if any of us doesn't mature spiritually enough to ever bear fruit, then He will conclude that we don't belong on the tree (Jesus) and we will be cut off (never acquire our salvation).
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Concise Letters
Dear Victorious,
I've noticed that the letters you print here are pretty succinct and to the point. Frankly, I find that hard to believe.
Thor M. - Charleston, SC
Dear Thor,
Yes, I would find it hard to believe too. Some of the letters I receive go on for even more than a page or two. It's almost as if someone wants to share their entire life story ... around a simple question. So I just pull the key question out and use that in this blog.
I've noticed that the letters you print here are pretty succinct and to the point. Frankly, I find that hard to believe.
Thor M. - Charleston, SC
Dear Thor,
Yes, I would find it hard to believe too. Some of the letters I receive go on for even more than a page or two. It's almost as if someone wants to share their entire life story ... around a simple question. So I just pull the key question out and use that in this blog.
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Church Shopping
Dear Victorious,
We've been shopping around for a new church home. After visiting several churches, we're just more confused than ever. We find a church that looks good and we think that we'll like it. But as we become more familiar with a church, we begin to see things about it that we don't like. I know, maybe we're being too picky or maybe we have unrealistic expectations. Still, I find it hard to imagine committing myself to a church with so many flaws that these churches seem to have any more. What do we do?
Xenia P. - Ft. Collins, CO
Dear Xenia,
A church doesn't have to be perfect to advance the cause of Christ. It doesn't have to be perfect for God to use it. And you're right about having unrealistic expectations. Rick Warren, a pastor and famous Christian author, says that there are no perfect churches. Further he says that if you find a church that you think is perfect ... you definitely should not go there because you're not perfect and you'd contaminate it!
The thing is you'll never find a perfect church. So rather than looking for what's wrong with each church you check out, consider looking for what's right at that church. In what ways do you see God moving in that church? In what ways do you see evidence that the people in that church love the Lord above all else and love others (both inside and outside the church)?
If you're looking for another church, I'm not going to ask why. That's between you and God. But let's just suppose that you had God's permission or leading to leave the last church you were in. Then I would expect God to have another church in mind for you. So ask Him. "Lord, is this the church you have for me? Is this where you want me to to engage?" Then listen to His answer.
We've been shopping around for a new church home. After visiting several churches, we're just more confused than ever. We find a church that looks good and we think that we'll like it. But as we become more familiar with a church, we begin to see things about it that we don't like. I know, maybe we're being too picky or maybe we have unrealistic expectations. Still, I find it hard to imagine committing myself to a church with so many flaws that these churches seem to have any more. What do we do?
Xenia P. - Ft. Collins, CO
Dear Xenia,
A church doesn't have to be perfect to advance the cause of Christ. It doesn't have to be perfect for God to use it. And you're right about having unrealistic expectations. Rick Warren, a pastor and famous Christian author, says that there are no perfect churches. Further he says that if you find a church that you think is perfect ... you definitely should not go there because you're not perfect and you'd contaminate it!
The thing is you'll never find a perfect church. So rather than looking for what's wrong with each church you check out, consider looking for what's right at that church. In what ways do you see God moving in that church? In what ways do you see evidence that the people in that church love the Lord above all else and love others (both inside and outside the church)?
If you're looking for another church, I'm not going to ask why. That's between you and God. But let's just suppose that you had God's permission or leading to leave the last church you were in. Then I would expect God to have another church in mind for you. So ask Him. "Lord, is this the church you have for me? Is this where you want me to to engage?" Then listen to His answer.
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
God Knows Me
Dear Victorious,
I know that God knows even the number of hairs on my head. He knows everything about me too. But I have to confess that I'm not sure what difference it makes. If God is my creator, then what does it matter that He knows such and such about me?
Steve A. - Alliance, OH
Dear Steve,
It's true that there is no knowledge which God does not possess. In contrast, there is extensive knowledge that mankind will never master. On a personal level, God knows my every move. He knows all of my thoughts. He hears my every word.
God is intimately familiar with my methods, my values, passions, priorities, etc. He fully understands my thought patterns and the processes I use to make decisions. Perhaps the hardest to grasp is the fact that God knows the future ... anything that is yet to come about in me.
Perhaps the most important thing for us to realize when it comes to God knowing me is the extent to which He knows me. Aside from knowing what I know about myself and what others know about me, God knows what nobody else knows about me. And He knows things about me that I don't even know about myself!
So what does all this matter? I suppose there are lots of answers to a question like this. But for me, it means that God loves us. Consider when you are attracted to someone. What do you do next? You get to know them. It's a natural pattern for relationships. The more highly that we regard someone, the more we want to know about it. So the fact that God knows so much about me is a good indication of how He regards me.
I know that God knows even the number of hairs on my head. He knows everything about me too. But I have to confess that I'm not sure what difference it makes. If God is my creator, then what does it matter that He knows such and such about me?
Steve A. - Alliance, OH
Dear Steve,
It's true that there is no knowledge which God does not possess. In contrast, there is extensive knowledge that mankind will never master. On a personal level, God knows my every move. He knows all of my thoughts. He hears my every word.
God is intimately familiar with my methods, my values, passions, priorities, etc. He fully understands my thought patterns and the processes I use to make decisions. Perhaps the hardest to grasp is the fact that God knows the future ... anything that is yet to come about in me.
Perhaps the most important thing for us to realize when it comes to God knowing me is the extent to which He knows me. Aside from knowing what I know about myself and what others know about me, God knows what nobody else knows about me. And He knows things about me that I don't even know about myself!
So what does all this matter? I suppose there are lots of answers to a question like this. But for me, it means that God loves us. Consider when you are attracted to someone. What do you do next? You get to know them. It's a natural pattern for relationships. The more highly that we regard someone, the more we want to know about it. So the fact that God knows so much about me is a good indication of how He regards me.
Monday, November 22, 2010
Baptism
Dear Victorious,
My husband and I have been married for five years, and joined a non-denominational church this past summer. When we took the membership class, they stressed the importance being baptized, and twice we've been contacted to try and schedule us for baptism. I was baptized as a child - before I could even walk. And my husband gave His life to Christ when he was a teen-ager (in a church that didn't do baptisms). So if we're both already saved, why would we need to be baptized now?
Dorothy V. - St. Paul, MN
Dear Dorothy,
Often there is confusion about baptism. People, and even some denominations, believe that baptism is necessary for salvation. That is not a Biblical view. Nevertheless many credible denominations (such as the Catholics) hold fast to it. This results in things like infant baptisms ... because the belief is that baptism is necessary for salvation and the parents or grandparents want to secure that salvation for their child as soon as possible.
So if you were baptized as an infant, it was because your parents or grandparents or whomever was involved in that baptism had an inaccurate understanding of what baptism is. The Biblical truth about baptism is that it is an outward expression to acknowledge what has already been accomplished. Your salvation is secured when you make a conscious decision to accept Jesus as Lord and Savior and pledging yourself to seek Him and obey Him for the rest of your life.
While baptism doesn't accomplish your salvation, it is a very important act of humility, obedience and respect on our part. It is one of the most significant signs of true repentance (Matthew 3:6) and it publicly identifies the believer with Jesus Christ (Matthew 28:19).
Often Jesus' own baptism is a reference point for the fact that baptism isn't needed to secure salvation. Jesus was perfect, had never sinned and actually is God. So you have to ask yourself why Jesus would get baptized. He didn't need to be saved. To help understand the significance of baptism, I think it's helpful to look at what happened when Jesus was baptized.
"When all the people were being baptized, Jesus was baptized too. And as He was praying, heaven was opened and the Holy Spirit descended on Him in bodily form like a dove. And a voice came from heaven, (saying), 'You are my Son, whom I love; with You I am well pleased.'" - Luke 3:21-22
Can you just imagine? Heaven was opened? The Holy Spirit came on Jesus in bodily form. And an audible voice from heaven declares God's love for Him. And God says, "... with You I am well pleased." I don't know about you, but I like to think that my own baptism does the same thing. Heaven rejoices, and God is well pleased.
Sign up for your church's baptism at your earliest convenience.
My husband and I have been married for five years, and joined a non-denominational church this past summer. When we took the membership class, they stressed the importance being baptized, and twice we've been contacted to try and schedule us for baptism. I was baptized as a child - before I could even walk. And my husband gave His life to Christ when he was a teen-ager (in a church that didn't do baptisms). So if we're both already saved, why would we need to be baptized now?
Dorothy V. - St. Paul, MN
Dear Dorothy,
Often there is confusion about baptism. People, and even some denominations, believe that baptism is necessary for salvation. That is not a Biblical view. Nevertheless many credible denominations (such as the Catholics) hold fast to it. This results in things like infant baptisms ... because the belief is that baptism is necessary for salvation and the parents or grandparents want to secure that salvation for their child as soon as possible.
So if you were baptized as an infant, it was because your parents or grandparents or whomever was involved in that baptism had an inaccurate understanding of what baptism is. The Biblical truth about baptism is that it is an outward expression to acknowledge what has already been accomplished. Your salvation is secured when you make a conscious decision to accept Jesus as Lord and Savior and pledging yourself to seek Him and obey Him for the rest of your life.
While baptism doesn't accomplish your salvation, it is a very important act of humility, obedience and respect on our part. It is one of the most significant signs of true repentance (Matthew 3:6) and it publicly identifies the believer with Jesus Christ (Matthew 28:19).
Often Jesus' own baptism is a reference point for the fact that baptism isn't needed to secure salvation. Jesus was perfect, had never sinned and actually is God. So you have to ask yourself why Jesus would get baptized. He didn't need to be saved. To help understand the significance of baptism, I think it's helpful to look at what happened when Jesus was baptized.
"When all the people were being baptized, Jesus was baptized too. And as He was praying, heaven was opened and the Holy Spirit descended on Him in bodily form like a dove. And a voice came from heaven, (saying), 'You are my Son, whom I love; with You I am well pleased.'" - Luke 3:21-22
Can you just imagine? Heaven was opened? The Holy Spirit came on Jesus in bodily form. And an audible voice from heaven declares God's love for Him. And God says, "... with You I am well pleased." I don't know about you, but I like to think that my own baptism does the same thing. Heaven rejoices, and God is well pleased.
Sign up for your church's baptism at your earliest convenience.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Holiday Depression
Dear Victor,
The Christmas season is upon us and I can just feel the depression coming on. Every year I get to feeling so low and so sad that I can hardly stand it. I know other people to do; apparently this is a common phenomenon. Why do people, especially Christ-followers, suffer such bouts of depression during the holiday season? Why can't we just be happy and enjoy the season?
Kendra L. - Monroe, LA
Dear Kendra,
The truth is that I don't really know why people get depressed during the holidays. I understand that depression typically has two causes, (1) chemical imbalance, physiological; or (2) situational, affected by circumstances. Personally I suspect there are some mistaken diagnoses, where things that are situational or circumstantial get treated as if they were physiological. Nevertheless, it seems obvious to me that depression which only hits during the holidays is not physiological. It is not the result of chemical imbalances.
So what are some possible causes for depression that hits only during the holidays? There may be many, but I suspect they all have their root in our belief system. Simply put, we may be believing lies and/or not believing truths. For example, we are told by our culture that Christmas is all about family and love. Frankly, that's a lie. It's all about celebrating the fact that Jesus was born to save my wretched, hopeless soul. Moreover, if my family is dysfunctional, just because it's Christmas doesn't mean they suddenly stop being dysfunctional. Only now I have a different expectation of them.
Another example (of a lie we're believing) is the notion of friends during the holidays. The images we have are friends ice skating together, exchanging big, exquisitely wrapped gifts, singing around the open fire, sharing hot cider, etc. Again, my friends and friendships are what they are. But we may have different expectations of them during the holidays, which don't get met.
An example of a truth I'm not believing, which could contribute to depression, is the fact that I am a sinner without hope of salvation. That's the truth, and that truth makes the birth of Christ all that much bigger and more meaningful to us. If, on the other hand, I still think I'm "a pretty good person," then I have denial about who I really am --- and little or no sincere appreciate for who Jesus is and what He did for me.
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Keeping Sabbath
Dear Victorious,
I know you blogged not long ago about the sabbath and how Christians should regard it. I don't understand what the big deal is. It seems that if we usually go to church, and don't go to work on Sunday that should meet the criteria (for Biblically observing the sabbath). But you're saying that it's more complicated than that. Where can I find a list of things not to do and things to do?
Alvin P. - Andrews, TX
Dear Alvin,
It's not about what we can or cannot do. It's about treating the day as holy. God didn't create the Sabbath with a list of things to do or not do. But ... He put guidelines in place that would prevent His people from doing anything that would distract us from the holiness of that day.
Read Exodus 20:8-11, and notice that God blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy. He instructs us to observe or practice the Sabbath day and keep it holy. So the reason we're not to work or engage in any of our regular activities is that God wants us to be still and focus on Him.
I think most Christians in America are probably failing to keep God's command to observe the Sabbath and keep it holy. Aside from church attendance for an hour or two, most of us go about or regular activities on the Sabbath. We think nothing of doing laundry, house work, yard work, shopping, etc.
For a contrast, consider God's intent. Look at Exodus 16:29-30. This is the story of where the Israelites had escaped from Egypt and were first in the desert. They had no food, so God put in place a plan that would last for 40 years ... of His providing daily manna (bread) that would cover the ground in the mornings like dew. The Israelites were to go and gather that they needed each day, and only what they needed each day. But on the sixth day, they were to gather twice as much. God did not want the Israelites to even pick up bread off the ground on the Sabbath day that He declared holy.
To make an analogy in our modern day lives, if there were free food sitting on your lawn on the Sabbath day of rest, God would not want you to pick it up. Similarly, you wouldn't be doing any grocery shopping, house work, yard work, etc. In fact some theologians would even consider sports to be "off limits" on the Sabbath.
Why would God take such a position with His people? It's not because these things are so bad; but rather it is because they take away from the holiness of this special day. Remember, His command for us is to keep it holy.
Friday, November 19, 2010
Sins of the Fathers?
Dear Victorious,
I've heard that the Bible says God will punish us for the "sins of our fathers," even to the third or fourth generation. This doesn't seem logical. How could a loving God do such a thing as punish me for something I clearly did not do?
Yvette I. - Rockford, IL
Dear Yvette,
You might be misunderstanding that. I think there are a couple places where such language is used in the Bible. But in both contexts, it isn't God punishing people unfairly. Rather it is the people experiencing the natural consequences of the poor choices made by their parents, grandparents, etc.
Mental health professionals readily point to trends in addiction, divorce and other "sins of the fathers." Basically the poor choices made by my parents are likely to be repeated in my life as well. In such case, we both suffer.
Conversely, if my parents chose righteousness and pursuit of God, I am much more likely to do the same. So the blessings of righteousness are also carried on to the third and fourth generations (though the Bible doesn't state that this way).
Look at Exodus 20:4-5 and notice that the first time God made this statement, He was talking about being a jealous God. He said that His punishment would endure to the third and fourth generations, but similarly His blessings would endure to a thousand generations!
I've heard that the Bible says God will punish us for the "sins of our fathers," even to the third or fourth generation. This doesn't seem logical. How could a loving God do such a thing as punish me for something I clearly did not do?
Yvette I. - Rockford, IL
Dear Yvette,
You might be misunderstanding that. I think there are a couple places where such language is used in the Bible. But in both contexts, it isn't God punishing people unfairly. Rather it is the people experiencing the natural consequences of the poor choices made by their parents, grandparents, etc.
Mental health professionals readily point to trends in addiction, divorce and other "sins of the fathers." Basically the poor choices made by my parents are likely to be repeated in my life as well. In such case, we both suffer.
Conversely, if my parents chose righteousness and pursuit of God, I am much more likely to do the same. So the blessings of righteousness are also carried on to the third and fourth generations (though the Bible doesn't state that this way).
Look at Exodus 20:4-5 and notice that the first time God made this statement, He was talking about being a jealous God. He said that His punishment would endure to the third and fourth generations, but similarly His blessings would endure to a thousand generations!
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Suffering for Jesus
Dear Victorious,
Is it true that Christians need to suffer for Jesus? I read passages like 1 Peter 4:1-2, and frankly they scare me. What are we to make of this?
Mort D. - Sparks, NV
Dear Mort,
No it is not true that Christians need to suffer for Jesus. What Peter is pointing out in that passage is the fact that we must arm ourselves with the same attitude that Jesus had to suffering. Jesus didn't want to suffer any more than you or I would. But He was willing to suffer if that were necessary to fulfill God's will for His life. You and I need to be just as ready --- should it ever be necessary.
Is it true that Christians need to suffer for Jesus? I read passages like 1 Peter 4:1-2, and frankly they scare me. What are we to make of this?
Mort D. - Sparks, NV
Dear Mort,
No it is not true that Christians need to suffer for Jesus. What Peter is pointing out in that passage is the fact that we must arm ourselves with the same attitude that Jesus had to suffering. Jesus didn't want to suffer any more than you or I would. But He was willing to suffer if that were necessary to fulfill God's will for His life. You and I need to be just as ready --- should it ever be necessary.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
After God's Heart
Dear Victorious,
When God called King David a "man after my own heart," what exactly did He mean by that? How can we become people after God's "own heart?"
Cela C. - Houston, TX
Dear Cela,
Look at King David's life, including some of the Psalms he wrote. The man made mistakes and sinned. But he had a humble repentant heart. He learned from his mistakes. And through it all, he trusted God. Moreover, he freely worshipped God with all his heart.
So if we want to learn from David's model, then we don't focus on our mistakes and our sin. It is not the absence of those things that make us men and women after God's own heart. Rather it is the willingness and readiness to repent when we do sin. It is the willingness and ability to consistently learn from our mistakes; and it is an enduring faith that will make us people after God's own heart.
When God called King David a "man after my own heart," what exactly did He mean by that? How can we become people after God's "own heart?"
Cela C. - Houston, TX
Dear Cela,
Look at King David's life, including some of the Psalms he wrote. The man made mistakes and sinned. But he had a humble repentant heart. He learned from his mistakes. And through it all, he trusted God. Moreover, he freely worshipped God with all his heart.
So if we want to learn from David's model, then we don't focus on our mistakes and our sin. It is not the absence of those things that make us men and women after God's own heart. Rather it is the willingness and readiness to repent when we do sin. It is the willingness and ability to consistently learn from our mistakes; and it is an enduring faith that will make us people after God's own heart.
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
God's Laws
Dear Victorious,
I've grown up in church, attending my whole life. But I've gotta tell you that as I look through the Bible, God's laws just seem to be an annoying list of "do this" and "don't do that." For the most part, they seem to be only relevant for the Old Testament people anyway. Jesus said He came to complete the law, so doesn't that really mean the law is finished and we need not worry about it?
Franklin B. - Tulsa, OK
Dear Franklin,
No, that's not what it means. God's laws revive us, make us wise, bring joy to our hearts (as we obey them), give us insight, warn us and reward us. God's laws are guidelines for healthy living and serve to light our pathway as we go. They point at danger to warn us and at success to incent us.
There is nothing irrelevant about God's laws for today's people. Re-read Matthew 5:17-18 and notice what Jesus said about God's laws. There is no part of them that should be disregarded until "everything is complete."
I've grown up in church, attending my whole life. But I've gotta tell you that as I look through the Bible, God's laws just seem to be an annoying list of "do this" and "don't do that." For the most part, they seem to be only relevant for the Old Testament people anyway. Jesus said He came to complete the law, so doesn't that really mean the law is finished and we need not worry about it?
Franklin B. - Tulsa, OK
Dear Franklin,
No, that's not what it means. God's laws revive us, make us wise, bring joy to our hearts (as we obey them), give us insight, warn us and reward us. God's laws are guidelines for healthy living and serve to light our pathway as we go. They point at danger to warn us and at success to incent us.
There is nothing irrelevant about God's laws for today's people. Re-read Matthew 5:17-18 and notice what Jesus said about God's laws. There is no part of them that should be disregarded until "everything is complete."
Monday, November 15, 2010
Mormonism
Dear Victorious,
Is Mormonism really a cult?
Ted R. - Sandusky, OH
Dear Ted,
I don't think Mormonism would meet the common understanding that we have in modern society of a cult. However, if you look up the word "cult" in a dictionary, you'll see that it can be any religion that is false. So in that sense, Mormonism, Unitarianism, Catholicism, Judaism, Islam, and many others would qualify as cults.
God is defined as the Trinity of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Nothing gets added to that or taken away from it. The only Holy Book we have is the Christian Bible - of the Old & New Testaments. Nothing gets added to that or taken away from it. This is the only true religion. Everything else is false (and therefore a cult).
Religions like Mormonism and Islam tend to be demonized by conservative Christians. They're treated as if they're some terrible brain-washing cult that takes hostages or something. That's not a fair representation of who they are. In fact, it exposes the ignorance of the Christians who think that way!
Put Mormonism in the same category as Catholicism. Neither have an accurate view or definition of who God is (so are worshipping a false god).
Is Mormonism really a cult?
Ted R. - Sandusky, OH
Dear Ted,
I don't think Mormonism would meet the common understanding that we have in modern society of a cult. However, if you look up the word "cult" in a dictionary, you'll see that it can be any religion that is false. So in that sense, Mormonism, Unitarianism, Catholicism, Judaism, Islam, and many others would qualify as cults.
God is defined as the Trinity of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Nothing gets added to that or taken away from it. The only Holy Book we have is the Christian Bible - of the Old & New Testaments. Nothing gets added to that or taken away from it. This is the only true religion. Everything else is false (and therefore a cult).
Religions like Mormonism and Islam tend to be demonized by conservative Christians. They're treated as if they're some terrible brain-washing cult that takes hostages or something. That's not a fair representation of who they are. In fact, it exposes the ignorance of the Christians who think that way!
Put Mormonism in the same category as Catholicism. Neither have an accurate view or definition of who God is (so are worshipping a false god).
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Unfaithful Spouse?
Dear Victorious,
Is there a way to know if your spouse is faithful? I don't have any reason to believe my husband is cheating on me. But if he ever did, I just couldn't handle that. What can a Christian woman do to protect herself in a situation like this? I know my husband is human, so there's always a risk that he could fail me.
Diane V. - Colleyville, TX
Dear Diane,
Here's the thing, if you're the Christ-follower that you tell me you are, then you have to trust Jesus for your security. You're right in that your husband and every other person whom you may have a relationship with could fail you. After all, they're only human. But Jesus is not. He is God. And He is sufficient for any pain you might suffer when humans fail you.
You seem to be suffering from something that hasn't happened. (We call that "worry.") Stop it. Embrace the relationship you have with your husband. Invest in it. And don't spend even a second trying to figure out a "Plan B" for when that relationship hits difficult spots. Instead, spend your time drawing close to God. He is your "Plan B" for all your relationships.
Is there a way to know if your spouse is faithful? I don't have any reason to believe my husband is cheating on me. But if he ever did, I just couldn't handle that. What can a Christian woman do to protect herself in a situation like this? I know my husband is human, so there's always a risk that he could fail me.
Diane V. - Colleyville, TX
Dear Diane,
Here's the thing, if you're the Christ-follower that you tell me you are, then you have to trust Jesus for your security. You're right in that your husband and every other person whom you may have a relationship with could fail you. After all, they're only human. But Jesus is not. He is God. And He is sufficient for any pain you might suffer when humans fail you.
You seem to be suffering from something that hasn't happened. (We call that "worry.") Stop it. Embrace the relationship you have with your husband. Invest in it. And don't spend even a second trying to figure out a "Plan B" for when that relationship hits difficult spots. Instead, spend your time drawing close to God. He is your "Plan B" for all your relationships.
Saturday, November 13, 2010
Tipping
Dear Victorious,
I don't like the fact that we are expected to tip the server at the restaurant, the cab driver, the dry cleaner, the barista at the coffee shop, etc. It just seems to be a never-ending siege of people who have their hand out. I think there's somewhere in the Bible where it says employees should be paid a fare wage. I don't think I should have to make up the difference when they're not. Is there some Biblical position I could take on this?
Vernon T. - Taos, NM
Dear Vernon,
Yes, there is a position on tipping that's Biblical --- but you're probably not going to like it. There are several places in Scripture that talk about the fact that people should be paid a living wage for the work that they perform. There is a plentiful supply of general Scripture references, such as those verses dealing with treating people fairly, doing the right thing and so forth.
But several verses specifically speak to employers about paying their workers a living wage ... the true value of their work in the present economy. Luke 10:7 says that "... a worker deserves his wages ..." and Romans 13:7 says, "... give everyone what you owe him." Then 1 Timothy 5:18 tells us that, "... a worker deserves his wages ..." Finally, James 5:4 says, "The wages that you failed to pay the workmen ... are crying out against you."
That all being said, the reality is that many employers don't do this. Some assume that with tips the salary that they pay will add up to a living wage for their workers. They're shifting the burden of proper payment to their customers. In other cases, the employers just don't care and don't make any assumptions about what their people will earn.
I would say that it is sinful for employers not to pay their workers a living wage (as defined by the market value of the work they perform). So what are good Christians to do for those who are being sinned against? Matthew 7:12 and Luke 6:31 tell us to treat others as we would like to be treated.
So, putting all this together, what's the best Biblical position for a Christ-follower to take? I'd say acknowledge that their employers are sinning against them and commit yourself to being the most generous tipper that you can afford to be.
I don't like the fact that we are expected to tip the server at the restaurant, the cab driver, the dry cleaner, the barista at the coffee shop, etc. It just seems to be a never-ending siege of people who have their hand out. I think there's somewhere in the Bible where it says employees should be paid a fare wage. I don't think I should have to make up the difference when they're not. Is there some Biblical position I could take on this?
Vernon T. - Taos, NM
Dear Vernon,
Yes, there is a position on tipping that's Biblical --- but you're probably not going to like it. There are several places in Scripture that talk about the fact that people should be paid a living wage for the work that they perform. There is a plentiful supply of general Scripture references, such as those verses dealing with treating people fairly, doing the right thing and so forth.
But several verses specifically speak to employers about paying their workers a living wage ... the true value of their work in the present economy. Luke 10:7 says that "... a worker deserves his wages ..." and Romans 13:7 says, "... give everyone what you owe him." Then 1 Timothy 5:18 tells us that, "... a worker deserves his wages ..." Finally, James 5:4 says, "The wages that you failed to pay the workmen ... are crying out against you."
That all being said, the reality is that many employers don't do this. Some assume that with tips the salary that they pay will add up to a living wage for their workers. They're shifting the burden of proper payment to their customers. In other cases, the employers just don't care and don't make any assumptions about what their people will earn.
I would say that it is sinful for employers not to pay their workers a living wage (as defined by the market value of the work they perform). So what are good Christians to do for those who are being sinned against? Matthew 7:12 and Luke 6:31 tell us to treat others as we would like to be treated.
So, putting all this together, what's the best Biblical position for a Christ-follower to take? I'd say acknowledge that their employers are sinning against them and commit yourself to being the most generous tipper that you can afford to be.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Christian Character
Dear Victorious,
Is there one characteristic of Christians that you think stands out among the rest? I mean is there one thing about Christians that is so different from non-Christians as to be unmistakable?
Kalen N. - Duncanville, TX
Dear Kalen,
Yes, I think there is. In fact, I think there are several. They're such remarkable features or personality traits because they're so uncommon in our society as a whole.
First and foremost would be the ability to hold your tonuge. Proverbs 10:19 tells us not to speak too much. Ironically it is a human trait to want to be heard, to want to share our thoughts. But the supernatural contols its tongue and spends way more time listening than it does talking.
The second one that comes to mind is forgiveness. Matthew 18:21-35 describes an inexhaustible level of forgiveness. Turn the other cheek and forgive seventy times seven would be the hardest level of forgiveness to offer. Jesus was in effect saying that we may have to keep forgiving and forgiving the same offensive behavior in others. But never are we to get to a place where we say, "That's enough. I'm not forgiving you any more." This isn't possible on a human level. The pain can run too deep and the desire for justice too strong. But the supernatural never stops forgiving. It doesn't matter what the offense.
Is there one characteristic of Christians that you think stands out among the rest? I mean is there one thing about Christians that is so different from non-Christians as to be unmistakable?
Kalen N. - Duncanville, TX
Dear Kalen,
Yes, I think there is. In fact, I think there are several. They're such remarkable features or personality traits because they're so uncommon in our society as a whole.
First and foremost would be the ability to hold your tonuge. Proverbs 10:19 tells us not to speak too much. Ironically it is a human trait to want to be heard, to want to share our thoughts. But the supernatural contols its tongue and spends way more time listening than it does talking.
The second one that comes to mind is forgiveness. Matthew 18:21-35 describes an inexhaustible level of forgiveness. Turn the other cheek and forgive seventy times seven would be the hardest level of forgiveness to offer. Jesus was in effect saying that we may have to keep forgiving and forgiving the same offensive behavior in others. But never are we to get to a place where we say, "That's enough. I'm not forgiving you any more." This isn't possible on a human level. The pain can run too deep and the desire for justice too strong. But the supernatural never stops forgiving. It doesn't matter what the offense.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Driving Out Fear
Dear Victorious,
I know the Bible says that perfect love drives out fear. Does that mean if fear is still present that perfect love is not present? Isn't the level of fear in someone really then a measure of their relationship with God?
Carl V. - Fort Worth, TX
Dear Carl,
No, I don't think that's what it means. 1 John 4:18 says, "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear ... The one who fears is not made perfect in love." On the surface, this would seem to suggest that the presence of fear equals the absence of Christ. That is not the case. Perfect love is the love of Jesus Christ that dwells within His followers. When someone commits their life to Christ, submits to and obeys Him, they are filled with His perfect love.
Now the perfect love of Jesus Christ overwhelms the fear that tries to occupy us. It doesn't say that the fear will disappear. Rather it will be driven out, overcome, put in its place. No longer will fear be legitimate decision criteria. No longer will fear have any power over us. Mind you, fear will still be present and still try to persuade us that it is in charge. Fear will lie to you and tell you that it is strongest and that you must obey your fears. But perfect love recognizes those lies for what they are. Perfect love says, "Do it afraid!"
Frankly, a total absence of fear might sooner equal the absence of common sense or a level of ignorance about the real, practical risks. But those who are truly in Christ Jesus can see the risks and not be intimidated by them. They know that their faith --- and His grace, will be sufficient to mitigate the risks that they know are very tangible.
Perfect love drives out fear. To be sure, fear will always want to drive out Christ's perfect love. But it never will. (It just doesn't seem to know that!)
I know the Bible says that perfect love drives out fear. Does that mean if fear is still present that perfect love is not present? Isn't the level of fear in someone really then a measure of their relationship with God?
Carl V. - Fort Worth, TX
Dear Carl,
No, I don't think that's what it means. 1 John 4:18 says, "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear ... The one who fears is not made perfect in love." On the surface, this would seem to suggest that the presence of fear equals the absence of Christ. That is not the case. Perfect love is the love of Jesus Christ that dwells within His followers. When someone commits their life to Christ, submits to and obeys Him, they are filled with His perfect love.
Now the perfect love of Jesus Christ overwhelms the fear that tries to occupy us. It doesn't say that the fear will disappear. Rather it will be driven out, overcome, put in its place. No longer will fear be legitimate decision criteria. No longer will fear have any power over us. Mind you, fear will still be present and still try to persuade us that it is in charge. Fear will lie to you and tell you that it is strongest and that you must obey your fears. But perfect love recognizes those lies for what they are. Perfect love says, "Do it afraid!"
Frankly, a total absence of fear might sooner equal the absence of common sense or a level of ignorance about the real, practical risks. But those who are truly in Christ Jesus can see the risks and not be intimidated by them. They know that their faith --- and His grace, will be sufficient to mitigate the risks that they know are very tangible.
Perfect love drives out fear. To be sure, fear will always want to drive out Christ's perfect love. But it never will. (It just doesn't seem to know that!)
Hearing God
Dear Victorious,
Recently our pastor preached a sermon on hearing God. He basically said that if you never hear God speaking to you, then maybe you don't really have a relationship with Him. That seems like a pretty nasty way of putting it. I've been a Christian for a very long time, and God simply doesn't speak to me like He does to other people. But that doesn't mean I'm not a Christian!
Shayla V. - McKinney, TX
Dear Shayla,
I think I might know the church you're going to. My pastor preached a similar sermon recently! In all candor, look at what the preacher said here. He wasn't saying you're not saved. He wasn't saying you're not a Christian. He was saying that if you don't hear God speaking to you, then perhaps you aren't listening as well as you think you are.
God has plenty to say to His children. He is our God and we are His people. He has guidance and direction for us every single day of our lives. If someone isn't getting that from Him, then the most logical place to look is at how effective their relationship with God really is.
Don't take offense to what has been said. But understand that God wants to speak to each and every single one of His children. If you're not hearing Him, then just accepting that and living with a status quo is not the right response. Instead, you should be examining your ways to see how you can become a better listener.
Recently our pastor preached a sermon on hearing God. He basically said that if you never hear God speaking to you, then maybe you don't really have a relationship with Him. That seems like a pretty nasty way of putting it. I've been a Christian for a very long time, and God simply doesn't speak to me like He does to other people. But that doesn't mean I'm not a Christian!
Shayla V. - McKinney, TX
Dear Shayla,
I think I might know the church you're going to. My pastor preached a similar sermon recently! In all candor, look at what the preacher said here. He wasn't saying you're not saved. He wasn't saying you're not a Christian. He was saying that if you don't hear God speaking to you, then perhaps you aren't listening as well as you think you are.
God has plenty to say to His children. He is our God and we are His people. He has guidance and direction for us every single day of our lives. If someone isn't getting that from Him, then the most logical place to look is at how effective their relationship with God really is.
Don't take offense to what has been said. But understand that God wants to speak to each and every single one of His children. If you're not hearing Him, then just accepting that and living with a status quo is not the right response. Instead, you should be examining your ways to see how you can become a better listener.
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Celebrity Watch
Dear Victorious,
I know you've blogged about Susan Boyle and other rich and famous people. Is there anyone that is on your radar screen right now? What celebrities are you paying attention to these days?
Gene O. - Billings. MT
Dear Gene,
There are a few of them on my radar right now. I don't usually watch celebrities (defined as rich and/or famous people) because they have influence on our society that is powerful. Americans particularly like to follow rich, famous celebrities. As such, we often copy their behaviors, adopt their values, etc. So while I may think, as a Christian, that someone is despicable as a human being - I nevertheless recognize their influence in our society. So who's on my "watch list" these days?
Lady Gaga - Meteoric rise to fame, seemingly an overnight sensation. Doesn't seem to have as much musical talent as she does a shrewd head for business and a laser-sharp focus on executing against a well-thought plan.
Donald Trump - Continues to expand his influence to more areas of our lives.
Miley Cyrus - Stands behind the innocent girl-next-door image that she claims for herself ... while gyrating in sexy music videos with skimpy clothing that suggest anything but wholesomeness.
Hillary Clinton - Lost a national election and yet became one of the most powerful women in the world, overnight, working for a man she claimed was incompetent and unfit for the job he has.
These are just a few that come to mind. Basically I watch rich and famous people and their interaction with society. Said differently, I pay attention what they do with their massive level of influence. Will they use it for good of all ... or for the good of themselves? Are their motives selfish, or genuine and sincere? And of course, if they're professing to be righteous - do they walk the talk?
I know you've blogged about Susan Boyle and other rich and famous people. Is there anyone that is on your radar screen right now? What celebrities are you paying attention to these days?
Gene O. - Billings. MT
Dear Gene,
There are a few of them on my radar right now. I don't usually watch celebrities (defined as rich and/or famous people) because they have influence on our society that is powerful. Americans particularly like to follow rich, famous celebrities. As such, we often copy their behaviors, adopt their values, etc. So while I may think, as a Christian, that someone is despicable as a human being - I nevertheless recognize their influence in our society. So who's on my "watch list" these days?
Lady Gaga - Meteoric rise to fame, seemingly an overnight sensation. Doesn't seem to have as much musical talent as she does a shrewd head for business and a laser-sharp focus on executing against a well-thought plan.
Donald Trump - Continues to expand his influence to more areas of our lives.
Miley Cyrus - Stands behind the innocent girl-next-door image that she claims for herself ... while gyrating in sexy music videos with skimpy clothing that suggest anything but wholesomeness.
Hillary Clinton - Lost a national election and yet became one of the most powerful women in the world, overnight, working for a man she claimed was incompetent and unfit for the job he has.
These are just a few that come to mind. Basically I watch rich and famous people and their interaction with society. Said differently, I pay attention what they do with their massive level of influence. Will they use it for good of all ... or for the good of themselves? Are their motives selfish, or genuine and sincere? And of course, if they're professing to be righteous - do they walk the talk?
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Crooked Politicians
Dear Victorious,
I know that Christian should pray for our government leaders. What exactly is it that we should ask God to do for them? I'm not being facetious. They seem to be crooked, insincere, professional politicians who are very self-serving, forget their campaign promises and don't seem to have America's best interests at heart. How then should we pray for such characters?
Loretta P. - Pulaski Heights, AR
Dear Loretta,
It sounds like you've got a bias and negative point of view when it comes to our elected officials. Are you casting them all in that light of insincerity and self-serving agendas? I'm not being facetious either. But we are supposed to love our enemies. Your tone seems to indicate you may have some work to do in that area. Do you really love our congressional representatives, senators, President and other elected and appointed officials? It's clear that you don't agree with their agenda or approve of their performance. Nevertheless you can still love them and wish the best for them.
How do you pray for such characters? Here are some places to start.
1. Ask God to draw our elected and appointed federal (and state or local) officials close to Himself.
If they're already professing to be Christ-followers, then ask God to give them a fresh vision of who they are in Christ, a fresh and renewed conviction regarding their personal submission and obedience to Christ's ways. Ask God to provide margin in their daily routine and convict them to use it to read their Bibles, pray, and listen to His word for them each day.
If they're not professing to be Christ-followers, ask God to put someone in their lives to witness to them. Ask Him to intervene in their lives in some tangible way so as to turn their hearts toward Him.
2. Ask God to give them wisdom and discernment. Ask Him to help them see with His eyes and hear with His ears. Ask God to let them process their thinking with the "mind of Christ," using His perspective to process their thoughts and His criteria with which to make their decisions.
3. Ask God to give YOU a loving heart toward these people. Ask Him to help you forgive them for the wrongs you see them committing. Resolve to extend to them the same grace that God has extended to you.
4. Finally, if you have a difference with our government officials, or see them doing something that you believe is wrong or even sinful, take the initiative to address it with them. Matthew 18:15-17 gives us guidelines for addressing people who do wrong. You first address it one-on-one with them. If they don't listen to you, take someone else (who agrees with your position) and address them. If they still don't listen to you, have the organized church address them. If they still don't listen, treat them as unrepentant sinners and have nothing more to do with them.
So ... how would Matthew 18:15-17 be applicable in the case of a politician who does wrong? Let's say your Congressman (or woman) does something you believe is wrong. Write to them. Call their office. Ask for an appointment. E-mail them. Do whatever you can to approach them one-on-one. If you get no response, get at least one other person to approach them with you again. Both of you write letters, request appointments, make phone calls, etc. (It could be more than two of you too.) If they still don't listen, have your church address the matter with them. And if they still don't listen, regard them as you would an unrepentant sinner who is inappropriate for public office. Pray for their removal from office. Campaign for their opponent. You get the picture?
The point is, Christ-followers are called to submit to and obey our government. But when our elected and appointed government officials do wrong, we are not powerless. We still submit to and obey them while they are in office. But we have a Biblical plan of action to take to address their issues. Maybe we need to pray for more Americans to be willing to execute that Biblical plan of action.
One thing is clear. Many self-professing Christians sin blatantly when we gossip about, ridicule, curse and bad mouth our elected and appointed government officials. When they do wrong, we have permission to address it. We do not have permission to trash them and assassinate their character.
I know that Christian should pray for our government leaders. What exactly is it that we should ask God to do for them? I'm not being facetious. They seem to be crooked, insincere, professional politicians who are very self-serving, forget their campaign promises and don't seem to have America's best interests at heart. How then should we pray for such characters?
Loretta P. - Pulaski Heights, AR
Dear Loretta,
It sounds like you've got a bias and negative point of view when it comes to our elected officials. Are you casting them all in that light of insincerity and self-serving agendas? I'm not being facetious either. But we are supposed to love our enemies. Your tone seems to indicate you may have some work to do in that area. Do you really love our congressional representatives, senators, President and other elected and appointed officials? It's clear that you don't agree with their agenda or approve of their performance. Nevertheless you can still love them and wish the best for them.
How do you pray for such characters? Here are some places to start.
1. Ask God to draw our elected and appointed federal (and state or local) officials close to Himself.
If they're already professing to be Christ-followers, then ask God to give them a fresh vision of who they are in Christ, a fresh and renewed conviction regarding their personal submission and obedience to Christ's ways. Ask God to provide margin in their daily routine and convict them to use it to read their Bibles, pray, and listen to His word for them each day.
If they're not professing to be Christ-followers, ask God to put someone in their lives to witness to them. Ask Him to intervene in their lives in some tangible way so as to turn their hearts toward Him.
2. Ask God to give them wisdom and discernment. Ask Him to help them see with His eyes and hear with His ears. Ask God to let them process their thinking with the "mind of Christ," using His perspective to process their thoughts and His criteria with which to make their decisions.
3. Ask God to give YOU a loving heart toward these people. Ask Him to help you forgive them for the wrongs you see them committing. Resolve to extend to them the same grace that God has extended to you.
4. Finally, if you have a difference with our government officials, or see them doing something that you believe is wrong or even sinful, take the initiative to address it with them. Matthew 18:15-17 gives us guidelines for addressing people who do wrong. You first address it one-on-one with them. If they don't listen to you, take someone else (who agrees with your position) and address them. If they still don't listen to you, have the organized church address them. If they still don't listen, treat them as unrepentant sinners and have nothing more to do with them.
So ... how would Matthew 18:15-17 be applicable in the case of a politician who does wrong? Let's say your Congressman (or woman) does something you believe is wrong. Write to them. Call their office. Ask for an appointment. E-mail them. Do whatever you can to approach them one-on-one. If you get no response, get at least one other person to approach them with you again. Both of you write letters, request appointments, make phone calls, etc. (It could be more than two of you too.) If they still don't listen, have your church address the matter with them. And if they still don't listen, regard them as you would an unrepentant sinner who is inappropriate for public office. Pray for their removal from office. Campaign for their opponent. You get the picture?
The point is, Christ-followers are called to submit to and obey our government. But when our elected and appointed government officials do wrong, we are not powerless. We still submit to and obey them while they are in office. But we have a Biblical plan of action to take to address their issues. Maybe we need to pray for more Americans to be willing to execute that Biblical plan of action.
One thing is clear. Many self-professing Christians sin blatantly when we gossip about, ridicule, curse and bad mouth our elected and appointed government officials. When they do wrong, we have permission to address it. We do not have permission to trash them and assassinate their character.
Monday, November 8, 2010
Stop Arguing
Dear Victorious,
My sister and I are constantly fighting. The thing is we love each other very much. But we are often arguing about the stupidest things. Sometimes the arguments escalate and one or both of us gets wounded in the battle. I love my sister and would do anything for her. She means the world to me. How can we fix this?
Andrea T. - Hudson, OH
Dear Andrea,
What you're talking about is conflict resolution. How do we handle conflict? Mind you, how Christ-followers handle conflict doesn't differ based on who they have the conflict with. It could be a loved one (as in your case) or it could be a business associate or classmate at school. We resolve conflict as follows:
1. Pray. Ask God to show you His perspective on the matter. Ask God to guide your thoughts and your words. Do you have His permission to confront, argue, debate, etc. It doesn't matter who fires the first shot either.
2. Ask yourself which is more important --- being right or being reconciled. Is being right or getting your way or defending your position more important to you than the relationship? (If you're still arguing, it must be!)
3. Resolve to enter the situation with grace and forgiveness. Offer the same grace and forgiveness that God offers you. Notice that God decided what He would do with your sin even before you were born. Make no mistake, your sin is against God and it grieves Him greatly. Sin also unleashes God's furious wrath. But He doesn't lash out at us. He's already decided to lead with forgiveness in His relationship with us. You should do the same in your relationships with others. Lead with forgiveness.
4. Ask yourself if you and your sister are working with the same decision criteria when you get into conflicts. Try to understand the thinking process she goes through that has in the past led to your arguments. Ask yourself what criteria she would need to use for the both of you to be on the same page. Ask yourself what decision criteria you would need to use.
Finally, let's notice anger in the Bible. God gets angry at sin and evil. Jesus got angry for two reasons. The first was when His Father was disrespected. The second was when people were poor and oppressed. There was no other time that Jesus got angry. He wasn't angry when His rights were violated. He wasn't angry when He wasn't believed and was called a liar. He wasn't angry when someone stole from Him, insulted Him, or just didn't pay attention to Him. The only thing that raised Jesus' anger was not treat God appropriately and injustices against people. Do you want to be like Jesus?
My sister and I are constantly fighting. The thing is we love each other very much. But we are often arguing about the stupidest things. Sometimes the arguments escalate and one or both of us gets wounded in the battle. I love my sister and would do anything for her. She means the world to me. How can we fix this?
Andrea T. - Hudson, OH
Dear Andrea,
What you're talking about is conflict resolution. How do we handle conflict? Mind you, how Christ-followers handle conflict doesn't differ based on who they have the conflict with. It could be a loved one (as in your case) or it could be a business associate or classmate at school. We resolve conflict as follows:
1. Pray. Ask God to show you His perspective on the matter. Ask God to guide your thoughts and your words. Do you have His permission to confront, argue, debate, etc. It doesn't matter who fires the first shot either.
2. Ask yourself which is more important --- being right or being reconciled. Is being right or getting your way or defending your position more important to you than the relationship? (If you're still arguing, it must be!)
3. Resolve to enter the situation with grace and forgiveness. Offer the same grace and forgiveness that God offers you. Notice that God decided what He would do with your sin even before you were born. Make no mistake, your sin is against God and it grieves Him greatly. Sin also unleashes God's furious wrath. But He doesn't lash out at us. He's already decided to lead with forgiveness in His relationship with us. You should do the same in your relationships with others. Lead with forgiveness.
4. Ask yourself if you and your sister are working with the same decision criteria when you get into conflicts. Try to understand the thinking process she goes through that has in the past led to your arguments. Ask yourself what criteria she would need to use for the both of you to be on the same page. Ask yourself what decision criteria you would need to use.
Finally, let's notice anger in the Bible. God gets angry at sin and evil. Jesus got angry for two reasons. The first was when His Father was disrespected. The second was when people were poor and oppressed. There was no other time that Jesus got angry. He wasn't angry when His rights were violated. He wasn't angry when He wasn't believed and was called a liar. He wasn't angry when someone stole from Him, insulted Him, or just didn't pay attention to Him. The only thing that raised Jesus' anger was not treat God appropriately and injustices against people. Do you want to be like Jesus?
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Fair Wage?
Dear Victorious,
Is there anything in the Bible that says a worker should be treated fairly by an employer?
Todd K. - Falcon Heights, MN
Dear Todd,
There are quite a number of verses that could be applied to this scenario. An example might be the golden rule (Matthew 7:12). Beyond this, I can think of a few verses that more specifically address the issue of being paid a fair wage.
Luke 10:7 "... the worker deserves his wages ..."
Romans 13:7 "Give everyone what you owe him ... "
James 5:4 "... The wages you failed to pay the workmen who mowed your fields are crying out against you. ..."
It's clear that God's people are expected to treat their employees fairly, and to pay them a living wage.
Is there anything in the Bible that says a worker should be treated fairly by an employer?
Todd K. - Falcon Heights, MN
Dear Todd,
There are quite a number of verses that could be applied to this scenario. An example might be the golden rule (Matthew 7:12). Beyond this, I can think of a few verses that more specifically address the issue of being paid a fair wage.
Luke 10:7 "... the worker deserves his wages ..."
Romans 13:7 "Give everyone what you owe him ... "
James 5:4 "... The wages you failed to pay the workmen who mowed your fields are crying out against you. ..."
It's clear that God's people are expected to treat their employees fairly, and to pay them a living wage.
Saturday, November 6, 2010
Ministry Calling
Dear Victorious,
I'm in high school and am thinking about becoming a preacher as my lifetime profession. My grades are good enough to get me into most any Bible college or seminary. But what are some signs that this would be the right choice? I mean, how do you know if you're really being "called" by God to ministry as a profession?
Robert E. Rio Rancho, NM
Dear Robert,
Discerning a calling from God is a serious matter. There are two things I would specifically look for if I were you. The first is that you can't imagine yourself doing anything else. (It's been said that one should never go into ministry as a profession unless he or she can not do anything else!) The second thing is that people who are considerably more spiritually mature than you are agree that you are anointed by God and called for this purpose. They will have prayed about the matter with you, and affirmed it for you.
When God is doing something, like calling someone to ministry, He never ever keeps it a secret. Expect other mature believers to affirm whatever you think God may be telling you.
I'm in high school and am thinking about becoming a preacher as my lifetime profession. My grades are good enough to get me into most any Bible college or seminary. But what are some signs that this would be the right choice? I mean, how do you know if you're really being "called" by God to ministry as a profession?
Robert E. Rio Rancho, NM
Dear Robert,
Discerning a calling from God is a serious matter. There are two things I would specifically look for if I were you. The first is that you can't imagine yourself doing anything else. (It's been said that one should never go into ministry as a profession unless he or she can not do anything else!) The second thing is that people who are considerably more spiritually mature than you are agree that you are anointed by God and called for this purpose. They will have prayed about the matter with you, and affirmed it for you.
When God is doing something, like calling someone to ministry, He never ever keeps it a secret. Expect other mature believers to affirm whatever you think God may be telling you.
Friday, November 5, 2010
Still Sinning
Dear Victorious,
I've been a Christian for several years now. The problem is that I continue to sin. I know everyone's a sinner. But I honestly expected that becoming a Christian would change that. How can I know if my level of sin is within an acceptable range (if there is such a thing) for a Christian? I mean at what point does one's sin overtake one's being a Christian?
Orlando M. - Mexia, TX
Dear Orlando,
It sounds as if you have some belief issues. It's not clear to me whether there are truths that you're not believing, or whether there are lies that you are believing. But let's look at God's truth on the subject. Anytime we have a dilemma on our hands, it is helpful to look for what God might have to say about the subject.
When you become a Christian, you are defined on the cross by Jesus. He makes you holy and righteous. This is difficult to believe, because the world tells us that our behavior or circumstances define us. That's a lie. They don't. So once you've truly given your life to Christ and started intentionally deferring to (i.e obeying) Him, actions and circumstances no longer define you.
I don't think there is any such thing as a point at which your sin overtakes your Christianity. The only way that could ever occur would be if your commitment to Christ were not real. Someone who has made a real commitment to Christ should notice some things about their sin as time goes on.
1. You sin less, and the instances of your sins get fewer and farther between.
2. You are more aware of your sin, and convicted of it sooner.
3. You are grieved by your sin. It isn't fun any more. It's troubling.
4. Your righteousness begins to replace your sinfulness.
5. You're more willing to confess your sin and repent of (turn from) it.
6. You become willing to make your wrongs right. You make amends where possible and are willing to be held accountable for your actions.
I've been a Christian for several years now. The problem is that I continue to sin. I know everyone's a sinner. But I honestly expected that becoming a Christian would change that. How can I know if my level of sin is within an acceptable range (if there is such a thing) for a Christian? I mean at what point does one's sin overtake one's being a Christian?
Orlando M. - Mexia, TX
Dear Orlando,
It sounds as if you have some belief issues. It's not clear to me whether there are truths that you're not believing, or whether there are lies that you are believing. But let's look at God's truth on the subject. Anytime we have a dilemma on our hands, it is helpful to look for what God might have to say about the subject.
When you become a Christian, you are defined on the cross by Jesus. He makes you holy and righteous. This is difficult to believe, because the world tells us that our behavior or circumstances define us. That's a lie. They don't. So once you've truly given your life to Christ and started intentionally deferring to (i.e obeying) Him, actions and circumstances no longer define you.
I don't think there is any such thing as a point at which your sin overtakes your Christianity. The only way that could ever occur would be if your commitment to Christ were not real. Someone who has made a real commitment to Christ should notice some things about their sin as time goes on.
1. You sin less, and the instances of your sins get fewer and farther between.
2. You are more aware of your sin, and convicted of it sooner.
3. You are grieved by your sin. It isn't fun any more. It's troubling.
4. Your righteousness begins to replace your sinfulness.
5. You're more willing to confess your sin and repent of (turn from) it.
6. You become willing to make your wrongs right. You make amends where possible and are willing to be held accountable for your actions.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Personal Evangelism
Dear Victorious,
Our pastor is constantly telling us that we are evangelists, and that each of us has personal responsibility to win others for Christ. To be honest, I don't think I'm gifted in that way, and I resent being told this all the time. Is there a good retort I could give?
Millie V. - Plano, TX
Dear Millie,
Part of a Christian's mission in life is to show unbelievers what God is like. We do this not only by telling them, but rather by our acts of love and compassion - which we give God the credit for. When we do this (love others), they are then attracted to our God.
You don't have to be an outspoken evangelist, winning souls for the Lord. But you do have to love others and be a reflection of Jesus Christ. You may indeed be the only Jesus they see! Stop getting angry at your pastor and start thinking about how you could respond to his call for everyone to start reaching out.
Our pastor is constantly telling us that we are evangelists, and that each of us has personal responsibility to win others for Christ. To be honest, I don't think I'm gifted in that way, and I resent being told this all the time. Is there a good retort I could give?
Millie V. - Plano, TX
Dear Millie,
Part of a Christian's mission in life is to show unbelievers what God is like. We do this not only by telling them, but rather by our acts of love and compassion - which we give God the credit for. When we do this (love others), they are then attracted to our God.
You don't have to be an outspoken evangelist, winning souls for the Lord. But you do have to love others and be a reflection of Jesus Christ. You may indeed be the only Jesus they see! Stop getting angry at your pastor and start thinking about how you could respond to his call for everyone to start reaching out.
Wednesday, November 3, 2010
Getting Respect
Dear Victorious,
I work in a large office environment and was promoted not long ago to the role of department manager. The problem is that all of the people whom supervise are older then me. Some are old enough to be my parents. How do I win their respect?
Charles J. - Tulsa, OK
Dear Charles,
I don't think any characteristic wins the hearts of adults more quickly than wisdom in the words and actions of a young person. Look up God's definition of what wisdom is and then start pursuing it. To put this differently, stop worrying about what people think of you --- and spend your time worrying about who you actually are. If you're a man of integrity people will respect you and you'll find that age is not a factor.
I work in a large office environment and was promoted not long ago to the role of department manager. The problem is that all of the people whom supervise are older then me. Some are old enough to be my parents. How do I win their respect?
Charles J. - Tulsa, OK
Dear Charles,
I don't think any characteristic wins the hearts of adults more quickly than wisdom in the words and actions of a young person. Look up God's definition of what wisdom is and then start pursuing it. To put this differently, stop worrying about what people think of you --- and spend your time worrying about who you actually are. If you're a man of integrity people will respect you and you'll find that age is not a factor.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Resisting Sin
Dear Victorious,
I have to confess that after years of being a Christian - I still struggle with sin. Frankly I don't understand how this is possible. I love the Lord, I want to do His will in my life. And of course I agree that His will is best. So why do I still struggle with sin?
Baker O. - Naperville, IL
Dear Baker,
Here's the thing - merely wanting or preferring God's will and way is not enough to stand against the onslaught of temptation that Satan throws at us. We must resolve to obey God. This means being consistently devoted to principle and committed to a specific course of action. Said differently, what will you do instead of sinning? Read Luke 11:24-26, where it explains that we can't just get rid of what's wrong in our life. We must also replace it with what's right. So sinfulness is exchanged for righteousness. If it isn't, sinfulness will return with a vengeance.
I have to confess that after years of being a Christian - I still struggle with sin. Frankly I don't understand how this is possible. I love the Lord, I want to do His will in my life. And of course I agree that His will is best. So why do I still struggle with sin?
Baker O. - Naperville, IL
Dear Baker,
Here's the thing - merely wanting or preferring God's will and way is not enough to stand against the onslaught of temptation that Satan throws at us. We must resolve to obey God. This means being consistently devoted to principle and committed to a specific course of action. Said differently, what will you do instead of sinning? Read Luke 11:24-26, where it explains that we can't just get rid of what's wrong in our life. We must also replace it with what's right. So sinfulness is exchanged for righteousness. If it isn't, sinfulness will return with a vengeance.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Strategic Default
Dear Victorious,
My husband and I are upside down in our house - owing more on the mortgage than the house is worth. We've been reading about strategic defaults and are thinking about doing that. It would free us up to purchase another house, taking advantage of a better mortgage rate and buying another house at a more realistic price. Overall it seems like a pretty wise thing to do. But my mother says its immoral to do this. We don't see anything wrong with it. What do you think?
Zelda R. - Sugar Land, TX
Dear Zelda,
Your mother is right. It is immoral. When you "strategically default," the bank and its shareholders bear the brunt of your poor investment. It is unfortunate that you and your husband made a bad investment in real estate. However, those are the natural consequences of our decisions in life. That fact that you are "upside down" in your home should not be the catalyst for a financial decision. Moreover, the fact that you can stick the bank with your losses and get away with it should not be a factor in your decision. God's people don't screw their banks and mortgage companies. It is that simple. Listen to your mother.
My husband and I are upside down in our house - owing more on the mortgage than the house is worth. We've been reading about strategic defaults and are thinking about doing that. It would free us up to purchase another house, taking advantage of a better mortgage rate and buying another house at a more realistic price. Overall it seems like a pretty wise thing to do. But my mother says its immoral to do this. We don't see anything wrong with it. What do you think?
Zelda R. - Sugar Land, TX
Dear Zelda,
Your mother is right. It is immoral. When you "strategically default," the bank and its shareholders bear the brunt of your poor investment. It is unfortunate that you and your husband made a bad investment in real estate. However, those are the natural consequences of our decisions in life. That fact that you are "upside down" in your home should not be the catalyst for a financial decision. Moreover, the fact that you can stick the bank with your losses and get away with it should not be a factor in your decision. God's people don't screw their banks and mortgage companies. It is that simple. Listen to your mother.
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