Humility

Dear Victorious,

What is humility? How does one attain it?

Stephan Z. - Rockville, MD

Dear Stephan,

Humility is a very elusive character trait. The Bible regards it as highly important though. Jesus referred to Himself as "gentle and humble in heart" (Matthew 11:29). Aside from Jesus' living example, the Apostle Paul wrote the clearest definition of humility: "Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you." (Romans 12:3) Humility is the character trait that allows you to live, act and even think with an honest estimate of yourself before God.

We show false humility when we project a negative worth on our abilities and efforts. We show pride when we inflate the value of our efforts or look down on others. True humility seeks to view our character and accomplishments honestly. Recognizing that we have succeeded in an effort does not need to be prideful ... it can be the conclusion to an honest assessment before God.

How can you acquire humility? True humility is not possible without a right relationship with God. In fact, it is such an elusive character trait that I don't believe anyone can develop it or acquire it. Rather it must be developed in us by God Himself.